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The fact that Jim Ottaway Jr.’s father did not believe in independent secondary school education seems particularly ironic in light of his son’s lifelong devotion to Exeter. But James H. Ottaway Sr., a successful newspaperman from Endicott, NY, had an unhappy experience at Andover during his own youth that influenced his feelings about his children’s education—that is, until Chuck Carpenter ’20 came to town.

A newsprint salesman, Chuck was an ardent Exonian who eventually convinced Mr. and Mrs. Ottaway that Exeter would change Jim Jr.’s life for the better. Jim, Exeter class of 1955, recalls thinking this was
“an exciting idea.”

Soon afterward, Jim was making the trek from upstate New York to seacoast New Hampshire to begin his prep year at the Academy. “I was homesick for 15 minutes,” he jokes. “As soon as I started making friends in Dunbar, I enjoyed every second for four years.” Chuck Carpenter’s prediction, it seems, came true. “It was hard work, great fun and indeed a life-changing experience that I’ve never forgotten,” says Jim.

Contributing significantly to Jim’s experience was the diversity he experienced as a student at the Academy. “I came from a small, upstate New York community where I didn’t know a single black person. I soon discovered black students at Exeter who were smarter than I was, faster on the track and good friends. This gave me an instant respect for students from minority backgrounds and a lifelong understanding of their special problems in American society.” Jim continues, “I also discovered that some of my best friends were scholarship students who could not have come to Exeter without the generous support of previous Exeter graduates.”

Jim describes Exeter as the place where he learned “the joy of discovering books and ideas in the classroom and the old Davis library; the joy of athletic competition—‘mens sana in corpore sano’; the pleasures of good conversation and lifelong friends.” Through the years, scholarship support has been a kind of raison d’être in both his Exeter volunteerism and his philanthropy. Serving as a class agent from 1955 to 1980 and as an Academy trustee from 1971 to 1981, Jim became known as a strong proponent of student financial aid who was willing to give his own resources for the cause. In a letter written in 1980 to Director of Financial Aid Rick Mahoney ’61, Jim expressed succinctly why scholarship support was, for him, such a compelling priority. “The great strength of Exeter,” he wrote, “is its geographic and social diversity.”

Now, over twenty years later, Jim still finds scholarship aid for current and potential Exeter students as critical as ever. So much so, in fact, that this past winter Jim pledged $10 million to establish a permanent fund at Exeter, the income from which will be used to provide scholarship aid for students with financial need. The James H. Ottaway Jr., Class of 1955, Scholarship Endowment brings Exeter closer to its Academy Master Plan objective of eliminating consideration of a family’s financial situation as a factor in the admission process. Jim’s gift is also the largest outright scholarship gift ever received by Phillips Exeter Academy.

“The basic reason for my continuing support of Exeter,” says Jim, “is that it is and should continue to be the best independent secondary school in America. One of the main reasons for its preeminence is its generous scholarship program, which I hope will be increased from helping 35 percent to 40 percent of the student body. At that level, Exeter would have a larger scholarship program than any other American secondary school.”

Jim, who has been honored with both the Founder’s Day Award (1985) and the John Phillips Award (1995) for his service to the Academy and to society at large, may have best summed up his philosophy on giving back to “Mother Exeter, stern, yet tender” in an address made to Academy faculty in May 1990. “There is another motivation for my gift,” he noted, “and that is my feeling that American citizens who are blessed with good fortune have a grave responsibility to contribute to the better education of future citizens.”






Non Sibi is published twice a year by the office of alumni/ae affairs and development at Phillips Exeter Academy.


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Kristin Fogdall


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Laura Chisholm


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Melanie Sage


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Above: James H. Ottaway Jr. ’55 and daughter Alexandra H. Ottaway ’78

Left: Jim Ottaway (right) has supported Exeter in myriad ways over the years. One of these was to create the James H. Ottaway Jr. Professorship, to which Academy Librarian Jacquelyn Thomas, (left) was appointed in 1989, during Kendra Stearns O’Donnell’s (center) tenure as principal.